Emotional abuse. Yes, I said it.
...That's what he's doing to you.
How much longer are you going to put up with his ridiculousness? You have got to set the record straight once and for all. I know you tend to make excuses for him and try to ignore the small things, but when he puts the blame on YOU, that is utterly and completely wrong. There is no excuse for him to displace that anger onto your relationship with him. His actions indicate that he is a coward who cannot stand up to whatever caused him stress, so instead, he's dumping them on you. I might not be the best person to ask about lovey-dovey relationship things, but one thing I never let anyone do is to walk all over me. I've had that happen and I refuse to let it happen again.
You tell me you love him and he's "good" to you. Well, if he really cares about you, then he would not make you so upset with things beyond your control each time something does not go his way.
I don't want to see you hurt again, but I am at a loss for words because I want to help you but I know that whatever I do is only going to make it worse.
Stop this abuse. Only you can do it.
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